Heh, so I'm nosy.    If you have a combination of your own and step-children, please count all together.

I have 4 step-children, 32 male, 29 female and 27 male and female.

Hahahahaha... guess

Haha none I should hope, Norman.  

I have 2 adult children who I gave birth to 'naturally'. One was 10lb/4.5kg and the other 9.2lb/4.18kg. Each of my children are from 2 different husbands and the SAME mother (me) which makes them half brother and sister. My first ex husband has 3 children by his second wife which means my daughter has 3 half brothers and one half sister in total. My son has only one half sister who he was raised from birth with and more recently 2 step-sisters from his father's second marriage! Confused yet? I have no step children. The half sister and brothers are considered full brothers and sister by my respective children. Can someone clarify something for me please? If a step-father and natural mother divorce where does that leave the step-daughter as far as relationship with the now ex-step-father? Is the ex no longer a step parent to that particular offspring? I divorced my daughter's stepfather 2 years ago. She was 27 at the time. Does this mean he is no longer her step father because he is no longer my husband? She does not consider him her step father anymore, he was a pretty detached one at any rate. Give me your ideas on this please.

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... Does this mean he is no longer her step father because he is no longer my husband? She does not consider him her step father anymore, he was a pretty detached one at any rate. Give me your ideas on this please.

Technically he isn't, but it's up to her and how she feels.

My sister and her husband divorced some years ago, but I still call and consider him my brother-in-law, even though he's technically not.

hehe...too young

Girls x 2 . . 23 & 24 . . ( and a Grand-baby due next April).  

Thanks Giz! That is what I deduced but wasn't really sure.
Funny thing was when I met my ex's new wife the one and only time in June, I asked her what she thought of my daughter, who she had met many times and who was invited to the party where (my daughter's ex-step-father and her) announced their engagement which my ex's only child and son was NOT invited to. Her reaction was one of absolute bewilderment and she was stumped. Because her new husband considered my daughter HIS and had spent more time with my daughter than our son when they came north to visit, she forgot I was actually my daughter's mother and my daughter was NO blood relation to her new husband When I told my daughter of the reaction or lack thereof, she was not a happy 'girl'.

I have three girls  

none,I'm only 11!
lol

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I have 2 adult children who I gave birth to 'naturally'. One was 10lb/4.5kg and the other 9.2lb/4.18kg.

  OH... MY.... GOD!!!!  

My wife is just over halfway through her pregnancy and the baby is a girl and she's really smart and looks like me.
Unfortunately, and my wife hates it when I'm just blunt as hell like this but she's not here and I'm very tired and don't have the energy to be diplomatic.. unfortunately it isn't here until it is here and something still could happen even though it isn't likely.  It's a very sad thought.. she already has a name and everything (and looks like me).  It really is not nice to consider things like that.  Why did I bring it up?  I feel depressed now.

Edit: Sorry for the double post... it's not even too late to edit, but as I said, I'm tired... I know what you're thinking, that if I'm that tired that I wouldn't be typing but you're wrong.  typing comes naturally even if I can't do it correctly all the time but leaving the keyboard for the mouse to select open up tabs and copy and paste and post and switch around... that's difficult.

lol im only 14.. so yer i dunt have any!!

I have a 'pigeon pair'.  That's what my nanna used to call a boy and a girl.  First a girl (7 pounds 6 1/2 oz) and then a boy (6 pound 3 1/2 oz).  My daughter is 5 and my son is 6 months old.

I have two boys, but there is nine years between them....so it was  like haveing 'two only children'

There's a 12.5 year gap between me and my brother.

Quoted from Candy

I have two boys, but there is nine years between them....so it was  like haveing 'two only children'

My sisters are 6 and 9 years younger than me.

12.5 wow silly thats heaps

not for another 15 years I hope

Quoted from dara

12.5 wow silly thats heaps

I'm pretty sure there's a 20 year age gap between my paternal aunt and uncle.

Hell, I have an uncle who is younger than one of his nieces and nephews. So that means my dear grandmother gave birth when she was already a granny.

My Mum was a granny before she was 39. She was still capable of having children then. My paternal granny had a child (her 13th) the same year my eldest sister was born. Not really unusual for those born in the late 1800's early 1900's.

My mum had a baby boy two weeks ago, which means there is a massive 18 year gap between me and him. When I walk around with my mum (she is only 36) people think that I am "with" her and we get the strangest looks but I just laugh it off. I always got bagged out through high school too with everyone calling my mum a milf . But anyway I also have a 15 year old sister (we both share same mum and dad) and another half brother from my dad who is almost 1.

I have 3 step-children - 2 girls (22 & 19) and 1 boy (1.  They have lived with me and hubby for 10 years.

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So that means my dear grandmother gave birth when she was already a granny.

how old was she then?

No idea, but I think she's in her mid 70s now. So she must've been between in her mid to late 30s or even her early 40s.

I had 3 daughters, 2 stepdaughters and 8 grandkids so far.

0 and hopefully it stays like that forever. I can't stand lil annoying kids. No offence.

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I have 3 daughters, 2 stepdaughters and 8 grandkids so far.

make that 9 grandkids now...lol

Congratulations.  I hope I live long enough to know what it means to have happiness over grandkids.